Why Blocks in Manifesting Can Be Good

Updated: Nov 14, 2019


Why is it taking so long to manifest more wealth? Or that ideal partner, dream house, or career? If you are getting impatient, take a step back from those anxious thoughts. It's time take a closer look at the silver lining.


Delays in manifesting your goals are good for your soul alignment. Recognize that you are on a divinely guided detour towards aligning with your soul path.


Signs from the Universe


The Universe is sending you signs, symbols, and synchronicities all the time. Seriously, like ALL the freakin’ time. Not only in your waking hours, but during your dream state too.


Often times, your mind is so focused on the goal that you miss these messages trying to guide you towards a path of more ease. You lack clarity because the anxious thoughts and despair cloud your thoughts.


Those thoughts then create a self-fulfilling prophecy. How do you get off that crazy emotional rollercoaster ride?


It’s important to let go of that need for control. Specially, let go of the “how” and “when” will you reach that goal. When you let go of that tight grip, you allow the Universe to work with the law of attraction to support you in manifesting.


Delays happen when you hold on so tightly to a particular outcome or a specific timeline. These priceless detours help you clear your energetic vibrations to be able to attract who and what you need for your highest good.


Delays in manifesting are good because it helps you realign with your soul purpose. When you are out of alignment and filled with negative emotions, use those emotions as a compass.


Navigate your way back to aligning with the frequency of the Universe. Take a pause to allow the Universe to take you on a detour.

Financial independence example:


Let’s say you are trying to manifest financial independence. You’ve checked all the boxes from saving, living frugally, working multiple side hustles, getting that job promotion and so forth.


But somehow you can’t quite reach that financial goal despite your increase in savings and earnings. It feels like you keep hitting a glass ceiling no matter what you do.


You decide to take a step back because you are burned out. You stop driving Uber the very next weekend. During your break from driving, you come across a Groupon for a free yoga workshop. You decide to buy the coupon and attend the workshop.


At the workshop’s group introduction, the person sitting next to you is a woman who drives Uber for fun. She says retired at 32.


The choice is yours. You can choose either or the two scenarios:


1. You can choose to look at the “coincidence” as the Universe trying to rub it in your face. Not only did someone younger than you reach your financial goal, but they didn’t work as hard as you to get there. You allow jealousy to get the best of you and you despise her.


In fact, you leave the workshop early because you are so filled with rage that the last thing you want to do is yoga. So you give up your goal. You bite the bullet and try to just be grateful for that paycheck from your 9-5.


2. You can choose to look at the “coincidence” as a divinely guided detour that what you want is actually attainable. In fact, others have achieved it already and you can learn a thing or two from them.


You chat up the lady sitting next you and she explains how she achieved financial independence through investing in rental properties. She herself used to be a certified financial advisor before retiring.


Through the brief chat, you realize the Universe is sending you messages through this lady. What you were missing was the investment strategy!


Financial wealth is not just about accumulating more money and saving every penny. It’s about investing your money wisely so that your money compounds and in turn “works for you.”


Romantic relationship example:


Many single gals wish to manifest a romantic relationship leading to marriage. Sure, being in a relationship is great. But being single has a different set of benefits that tends to be overlooked.


I found being single in my 30's had many benefits. I enjoyed the freedom of making career decisions on my own without having to consider how it may impact a significant other. In fact, I wouldn't have started NotABondGirl had it not been for my independence and flexibility as a single gal!


Not sure where to start on creating your single, fab, and free life? Write down what you enjoy doing on your free time and make it a priority to incorporate it into your day.


Next, align your time with these priorities. For instance, if your enjoy reading, align your time so that you can spend at least 30 minutes each day reading.


Why not start marking your calendar to schedule it in your days? This not only gives you something to look forward to, but it also starts building a routine into your days.


When you start investing in yourself, you are creating space to attract that ideal partner. In order attract your ideal relationship, align yourself to be at same vibration of who you want to be with. What does this mean?


According to the law of attraction, we are able to attract what we want in life by holding space for that thought. By doing so, we allow the universe to deliver our goals to us.


By holding positive energy, we attract positive results. Rather than just visualizing your ideal partner, actually feel and live as if you are already in that relationship so you vibrate with the same frequency of that version of you.


Are you are able to pick out a benefit or two in your single and fab life? Write it down! By writing it down, you are engaging your mind and using more physical energy than typing it out. Since writing has a higher vibration than typing, you allow yourself to energetically raise your vibrations much faster!


Ready to clear blocks to manifesting more wealth?



Clear your money chakra!


Hit a glass ceiling in your career? Got stubborn money blocks? Your money chakra, aka root chakra, may be unbalanced.


The key to clear blocks getting in your way of being in the energetic flow is to align yourself to vibrate at the frequency of where you want to be in life.


By incorporating a holistic approach, you are better able to raise your vibrations to attract financial abundance.

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